Trauma, like ogres and onions, has many layers.

Trauma, like ogres and onions, has many layers.

Trauma, like ogres and onions, has many layers. What is trauma?  Trauma is anything that happened to you that changed the way you look at yourself or the world. I know that’s pretty broad, but what is trauma to one person may not be trauma to another. Trauma doesn’t...
The Pain of Family Estrangement

The Pain of Family Estrangement

There has been a lot of talk in recent years about estrangement from family.  It is something that has always existed, but is being talked about more and more.  The old ideals of putting family before everything, at times even before one’s self, no longer holds.  But...
Finding a Therapist

Finding a Therapist

Finding a Therapist Therapy! Why do I need to go to a complete stranger and open up my deepest darkest secrets? Why would I want to remember the sad or bad things that have happened to me when I’ve worked so hard to keep them tucked away in a box? What if I try it and...
Adverse Childhood Events

Adverse Childhood Events

Adverse Childhood Events (ACEs) Study – Physical Problems Due to Unresolved Trauma How scary is this? From 1995-1997, Kaiser Permanente, a huge hospital in Southern California studied over 17,000 patients for this study. It asked questions about abuse and...
Suicide Prevention

Suicide Prevention

Help! Someone Is Saying They Want to Kill Themselves, What Do I Do? It is hard to hear someone we care about suffer so much that they think that suicide is the only answer. We want to provide them comfort and keep them safe. But what if we’re not a trained...
When Love Hurts

When Love Hurts

When Love Hurts Fred and Ginger sit side by side on the couch. They’ve been arguing a lot the past few months, but right now, she feels a surge of love for him, and reaches for his hand. He pulls it away, and claps for the team playing on the screen. The moment has...